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The Gift of Diamonds
How to Choose the Perfect Dress
A long formal dress is suitable for a church wedding of a civil ceremony
although many brides do prefer wearing a smart dress or tailored suit
for the Registry office. Some religions also frown on sleeveless
dresses or low cut outfits and this will need to be taken into account
too. No matter which style you pick, remember that the back view
is as important as the front, you will have you back to everyone
during the ceremony.
Choose fabric that is resistant to crushing and creasing. Detachable
trains that can be removed or hooked up are also wise. Dress ideas
and colors will need to be discussed with the groom without revealing
all the details so that the colors and styles of the wedding party can
be coordinated.
Look in the mirror
Be realistic and don't try and aim for what Hollywood starlets look like
on their wedding days, most of us don't have personal trainer and chefs
to look after us and help keep us in shape.
Don't set your goal posts too close to the moon, you will only be
disappointed and feel like a failure when your big day is meant to be a
celebration of your love for one another.
Concentrate on the real you!
Think about what you normally wear, what colors suit you and which
styles flatter you figure and most important, which outfits make you
feel on top of the world, What type of ceremony and theme are you
looking to create traditional or relaxed, formal or informal.
Colors
White dresses are not obligatory these days, if you don't feel white is
your color or will complement you then don't wear it. Wedding
gowns are becoming increasingly popular in cream, pale gold, pale blue,
pale pink and red. There is also a trend these days to go for
darker colors like burgundy or shades of green which is a beautiful idea
for a Christmas wedding.
You will feel better in a dress that flatters your complexion or one of
your favorites instead of going with white because it seems to be the
norm. If wearing a bright colored dress the details should be kept
to a minimum.
The Right Style for your Shape
Choosing a style that flatters your shape can make a huge difference to
how you look and also give you a huge confidence booster. Trying
on dresses that either don't suit your body or the ceremony is not only
a waste of time but can also depress you and you might find that you
give in and buy the wrong dress anyway. A sure fire way to put a
dampener on your big day. Dresses that don't cost a fortune are
available at
EveryWeddingThing.co.uk along with all the accessories you will
need.
Tall and Thin?
Choose a ball gown with a strapless, fitter bodice.
Bony shoulders or collar bones can will suit dresses with a higher
neckline that are long and fitted.
If you feel you are too thin for this style consider that you can set of
your height and leanness with some delicate detailed embroidery or
beading.
Short with a fuller, feminine Figure?
Try an empire line dress which has a seam under the bust line and in the
right fabric, the dress will flow instead of cling. A Knee length
dress will also look good, the longer dress will add
height and give you a taller silhouette. Sleeves should also be
long but not too tight if considered.
Thick Waist?
Conceal a wide waist with a boned corset or wear a decorative jacket
that falls just below the waistline. Avoid fitted ballerina styles
Very Full Bust? To draw attention away from the bust choose a
dress with a long bodice or cowl neck. Dresses with a natural
waistline will draw attention to the bust area. Pick a plain
bodice and avoid low necklines. Pick a detailed hem if you want to
add a little something that you feel might be missing on the top
Full or Wide Hips?
Avoid bustles and ruffles or tiered dresses. Most styles will look
great but avoid tight styles around the hips. Princess styles that
are fitted on the top and flare slightly to the hem will help disguise
larger hips. Ball gown styles in simple fabrics will also draw
attention away from the hips.
Big bottom?
Avoid bows or back fastening ties. Consider a light train from the
top of the bodice or waist
Wide Shoulders?
Wide straps will narrow the appearance of your shoulders or cover then
completely. Draw the focus to a v-neckline. Wearing a sheer
wrap will also soften the effect. Do not wear puffed sleeves,
don't even consider them!
Short or heavy legs?
Opt for a long dress. Sheath styles which are straight but not too
clingy will add height.
Short Arms?
Three Quarter length sleeves will be flattering. Do not go
sleeveless.
Chubby Arms?
Choose long simple sleeves that are not too tight. Wear a bolero,
shrug or wrap.
Pregnant Brides
Maternity bridal wear is a fairly specialized item to find and not
offered at standard bridal shops. Having a bump does not equal frump.
Pregnant brides can still have the dress of the dreams. If you are
having a baby or have just had a baby then take into account the fact
that you are going to have long day, so go for comfort when choosing
what to wear.
Don't try to squeeze in a corset style dress in the size you used to be.
Your dress will have to allow for your changing shape and you will need
to find a reliable dress maker for last minute alterations.
If you want to disguise the pregnancy go for a dress that is one size up
and getting the bust altered. A big bouquet will also disguise the tummy
area.
You do not need to sacrifice style to be comfortable, tight waists and
figure hugging dresses with tightly laced bodices are not worth sparing
a thought for as they will only torment you on your special day.
Focus on showing off your new curves with a focus on the shoulders or
bust
Styles that are perfect for the pregnant bride are Empire lines,
princess lines or A line dresses. These styles flare from under the
bust, the empire line has a straighter skirt. A Chiffon overlay can be
added to soften the lines of your dress or opt for a medieval style
dress with long flowing sleeves.
Made to measure maternity bridal wear is available at
EveryWeddingThing.co.uk
at an affordable price.
Some guidelines when deciding on a dress:
Try on as many different styles as you like and view them from as many
different angles as possible, take some shoes along that will be similar
in height to the ones you may wear.
To get the full effect have the shop fit you out in a veil with the
dress as you won't want to take your wedding dress with you when you go
veil shopping. Take your time to make a decision and don't feel
pressured by pushy sales people.
How much deposit is required and when is the balance due?
Does the price include VAT?
How much extra are the alterations?
How far before the wedding must you order?
How many fitting will be required and do they offer Saturday or after
hours fittings?
Can you arrange a fitting with accessories, lingerie and shoes?
Get confirmation of all appointments and money paid in writing.
How far before the wedding will the dress arrive?
Do the shop offer storage garment bags?
Ask about the care instructions for getting the crease out before your
big day.
What is the shops policy on cancellations?
Have you added the dress to your wedding insurance?
If you are going to hire your dress, check to see if the chosen dress
will be available on your day, cleaned and ready for collection. Does
the hire price include a full 24 hours. Does the dress have to be
cleaned before its returned? (an added expense)
After the wedding who will be entrusted with delivering the dress back
to the hire shop as it should be.
About the author:
Hellen McMaster is a successful wedding professional helping brides pick
the best dresses that suit them at
EveryWeddingThing.co.uk
along with all the necessary accessories like veils, tiaras and jewellry.
Hellen also has a sister website specializing in wedding stationery
design and favors at affordable prices. Widest range of Tartan and
Scottish themed stationery on the internet and also uses the exclusive
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